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Posted: Fri 18:48, 30 Aug 2013 Post subject: hollister france Introduction To Procrastination-- |
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Introduction to Procrastination-Part II
As with all ambivalences (see below), procrastination pops up
when there are conflicts over values, ideas or feelings. We are aware
of some aspects of these; that is, we may have a conscious experience of
the [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] conflicts. Or, the conflicts may be between what we are aware of
and what is out of awareness. Many a thought has come and gone, yet
still resides in our unconscious minds. Here, we find values,
preferences, hidden motivations, likes and dislikes; plus as Freud said,
here exists a whole [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] pantheon of buried impulses, some good, some [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] not.
I'm not talking about conscious choices that appear to be
procrastination, but really are expressing other dynamics, such as
planning. Examples of this are delaying a project because not enough
data are available to manage it, or proceed, so we wait. Another example
is when [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] you are sick. If you are like me, when I'm sick, I [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] manage my
resources much more intently and take on less and less until I feel better.
When I'm sick, I don't feel like doing anything. If the sickness is
protracted, my delays will be too. This isn't procrastination of the
kind I'm talking about in this paper; its preserving resources, no matter
how long it takes to recover and begin anew. [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] The proof is that when I
have enough data or I feel better, I actually start [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] on something and the
illusion of procrastination disappears. I'm not talking about illnesses
or neurological conditions, like mood disorders or ADHD. See the example
of "Jim" at the very end of this ebook for more consideration of these
conditions. Procrastination that causes problems, not problems that appear
to be but are not procrastionation is [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] the focus of this ebook.
In this paper, I'm writing about the conflicts between what we are
aware of [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] and what is in our unconscious minds. Worse, we can have conflicts
between two values, ideas or feelings that are wholly unconscious. In this
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych] case, there will be [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] procrastination but almost no understainding or awareness
of the dynamic-just anxiety. Why?
As with all indecision, procrastination is experienced as an impulse to
avoid something, or say [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] "No" to something or to not pay attention to some part
of our brain that is speaking, just not very clearly or perhaps loudly enough.
-Dr. Griggs
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